As a Christian psychologist,
I've listened to thousands of men
share their stories, and without
exception, one thing lies at the
heart of every man's struggle.
Fear.
Here are some general examples
of what guys often tell me.
1. "My fear of rejection leads to
avoiding real intimacy with my wife
and using pornography instead."
2. "My fear of failure leads to being
passive with my career because I'm
afraid to risk being disappointed."
3. "My fear of conflict often leads
to people-pleasing because I
hate it when she's mad at me."
4. "My fear of being overwhelmed
leads to using alcohol because I
don't want to deal with the stress."
I've listened to thousands of men
share their stories, and without
exception, one thing lies at the
heart of every man's struggle.
Fear.
Here are some general examples
of what guys often tell me.
1. "My fear of rejection leads to
avoiding real intimacy with my wife
and using pornography instead."
2. "My fear of failure leads to being
passive with my career because I'm
afraid to risk being disappointed."
3. "My fear of conflict often leads
to people-pleasing because I
hate it when she's mad at me."
4. "My fear of being overwhelmed
leads to using alcohol because I
don't want to deal with the stress."
Fear really is our kryptonite.
Ironically, fear offers us freedom, but
in the form of addictive behavior.
Fear doesn't just trigger destructive
actions, it reduces us to mere
shadows of our true selves—ghosts
drifting through life, disconnected
from who we truly are and from
what we genuinely care about.
This is why I created
The Man Seminar.
The Man Seminar is a one-day,
in-person workshop that uniquely
combines scripture, prayer and
evidence-based psychology while
equipping you with specific skills
and knowledge in a supportive
environment with other men.
The time has come for true
freedom—freedom from our fear-
driven narratives, freedom from our
destructive behaviors, and the
freedom to live a courageous life
as the man you're meant to be.
This is the mission of
The Man Seminar.
Ironically, fear offers us freedom, but
in the form of addictive behavior.
Fear doesn't just trigger destructive
actions, it reduces us to mere
shadows of our true selves—ghosts
drifting through life, disconnected
from who we truly are and from
what we genuinely care about.
This is why I created
The Man Seminar.
The Man Seminar is a one-day,
in-person workshop that uniquely
combines scripture, prayer and
evidence-based psychology while
equipping you with specific skills
and knowledge in a supportive
environment with other men.
The time has come for true
freedom—freedom from our fear-
driven narratives, freedom from our
destructive behaviors, and the
freedom to live a courageous life
as the man you're meant to be.
This is the mission of
The Man Seminar.