As a Christian psychologist,
I've heard thousands of men share
their stories. Without exception,
one core issue lies at the heart
of every man's struggle.
Fear.
These are common
examples I hear regularly:
My fear of rejection distances me
from my wife and tempts me
to use pornography as a substitute.
My fear of failure makes me
passive in my career so I
avoid being disappointed.
My fear of conflict often leads to
people-pleasing because I don't
want her to be mad at me or upset.
My fear of being overwhelmed
leads to using alcohol because it's
the only way I can handle stress.
I've heard thousands of men share
their stories. Without exception,
one core issue lies at the heart
of every man's struggle.
Fear.
These are common
examples I hear regularly:
My fear of rejection distances me
from my wife and tempts me
to use pornography as a substitute.
My fear of failure makes me
passive in my career so I
avoid being disappointed.
My fear of conflict often leads to
people-pleasing because I don't
want her to be mad at me or upset.
My fear of being overwhelmed
leads to using alcohol because it's
the only way I can handle stress.
Fear offers us freedom, but in the
form of avoidant or addictive
behaviors. Ironically, the "escape"
it provides leaves us even more
imprisoned. And fear doesn't just
lead to poor choices; it reduces us
to mere shadows of our true
selves—drifting through life
disconnected from who we truly
are and those we truly cherish.
The Man Seminar is a one-day,
in-person workshop that offers
real freedom: freedom from the
fear narratives, freedom from the
destructive behaviors and freedom
from the passivity that robs us of
the life we were meant to live in
our careers and relationships.
Conquering every man's fear
& unleashing a courageous life.
This is the mission of
The Man Seminar.
form of avoidant or addictive
behaviors. Ironically, the "escape"
it provides leaves us even more
imprisoned. And fear doesn't just
lead to poor choices; it reduces us
to mere shadows of our true
selves—drifting through life
disconnected from who we truly
are and those we truly cherish.
The Man Seminar is a one-day,
in-person workshop that offers
real freedom: freedom from the
fear narratives, freedom from the
destructive behaviors and freedom
from the passivity that robs us of
the life we were meant to live in
our careers and relationships.
Conquering every man's fear
& unleashing a courageous life.
This is the mission of
The Man Seminar.
Tom Mills, MA, LP
Founder and Creator
Founder and Creator